I remember my mom used to told me when me and my brother were young, she said "if you don't study hard now, you can't earn big money, can't work like daddy that earn so much money". And I feel very annoy when she started to say all these again and again every time with the same story.
I just realized, if we really never study hard, without the knowledge, without the cert, who gonna hire us in the workplace? how do we survive in the society? So this linked to my topic, we choose what we want, not the things come to us and we force to accept it. I have some close friends in my life, one of them has a girlfriend, which we all feel she is not really a good girlfriend, same as my friend, he might not be a good boyfriend. Every time see they argue, then the girl will be drama queen post some shit shoutout in facebook to seek for attention, or will come and talk to me and trash talk about her boyfriend. Is this really you want? If you hate him that much, why dont just leave him? Dont you feel tired of such life? repeating the same shit again and again and put people who are not related involved in. Get a life man seriously.
I have this thought in my mind as the tough life never choose us. So what for I want to live in a life that is so unhappy? keep on making myself down, stressing over something that is not worth stress for. People who dont appreciate us, they will just leave us in our life. So we do. Friends come and go, we can choose which to let them stay longer in our life, some are just using us as they can get benefit from us, this is what we call 'fuck buddy'. Hell yeah. I have plenty of them.
Back to the title, that linked to my studies of my professional paper, I know degree are very common now on the street. Any finger we point at, there is a degree holder on the street fighting for the work vacancy with us. Hence, is this really I should just stop here with my degree cert? I dont think so, I might feel easy and free if I dont take the paper, but what about another 20 years later? With that much of experience, but with so many junior come out with their professional cert, they can easily climb up on me.
Few days ago I went out to do audit with my senior, he has been working in my firm for almost 10 years. He has lot of things that he shared with me, about life, work. I have asked him some question about study as well, he has the same thinking, accountants are getting more and more nowadays, so what if we have a degree cert. He says after he got his professional body cert, he go on with another course which is related to accounting, that is tax consultant, this makes him a little bit special compare with other accountants. He told me that, he doesnt want others to drag his life, as he says if he leave his company, at least he is still special and wouldnt die out there.
Know what you do, dont regret with it, because you choose it.
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